
I have have a friend. A marvelous, creative, giving, inspiring friend. Deb Schwedhelm is a photographer that I admired from afar early in my photography journey. She creates pure poetry with her camera and imagery. Back in 2008 the stars aligned and I had the pleasure and honor to go visit her in San Diego, CA. Deb and her beautiful family welcomed me into their home without hesitation.
Now, this was my first time away from my family. This was my first time being gone overnight, never mind out of the country! I loved having the much needed me time, but I was desperately missing my family. Because my mind kept wondering back home, I wasn’t able to *be present* during this time. Here I was with one of my personal creative idols and I’m not sure that I said anything of substance! I don’t think I ever really dove into a conversation about creativity, inspiration or passion about our craft. DUH Ashley! Be present. Be open. Live and laugh hard because moments do not come back again. I know I will someday be with a clear mind, open heart and have the chance to see my friend again. This adventure to San Diego was an experience for me. I choose to now breathe in each moment … with my family and without. I am more aware now that I need to also feed the soul of my individual self. (Something each of us Mommy’s need to remember).
I need to find a way to express my gratitude to my friend. With every blog post she writes, she has this ability to stir something inside me. She gives so much of herself and she inspires on so many levels. I’m sure many of you out there may already follow her work and blog but just in case you don’t, please take a moment to visit the links. Please also take a moment to visit The Give Ten Project – a project I hope to be a part of very soon, started by both Deb and the fabulous Stephanie Beaty of Lifeography.

Big hugs friend! oxox
Love Ashley ~